Getting Her Back… For Good – Review

October 2, 2008 | Leave a Comment

Review on Getting Her Back… For Good By Michael Webb

One of the hottest books on the market right now is the “How to Get Your Lover Back” Guide. So what makes Michael Webb’s guide so different? Unlike other books in this market, this book caters specifically to MEN ONLY. This book is for men who have broken up with the love of their lives and desperately want them back AND… for men who are still together but feel that their women may betray or leave them one day, so they want to know what to do should anything happen in the future.

Most of these “get her back” books usually say things like, “just don’t pursue her and she will eventually come back”. What kind of advice is that? Especially when you pay money for it! And worst of all, most of these books PROMISE they’ll get your girl back. How can they possibly promise a 100% success rate when there are 1000’s of possible scenarios you could experience? Rather than try to show you ways to trick her back into being with you, Michael teaches you how to become a better YOU so she’ll want you back.

You can get more details of Michael Webb’s book at his website “Getting Her Back for Good” or you can read my review on Getting Her Back for Good here.

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3 Ways to Win Your Lover Back

September 27, 2008 | Leave a Comment

Have you lost the hope of ever getting back together with your lover? After a tough breakup, it’s only natural to think that way sometimes.  But we need hope.   Hope is the first step to getting back together.   We can’t get very far when we give up.

When we are down in the dumps, it seems impossible to ever feel the joy and excitement that comes from sharing a deep, loving relationship with the one you love.

But there is good news.  You can get back together with you lover.  There is hope. There are so many things you can do to get your lover back and I’ll give three of them here.

1. Take the focus off of getting back together.

Have a good time and be yourself. Your ex fell in love with you at one time. You were such a great person at that time. Since breakup brings out many emotions, you may be acting quite differently than you were when you first fell in love.  Have a good time and be yourself, be that great person again. Don’t pressure your ex to get back together with you. No one wants to make a decision when they feel pressured.

Now strip all the extra things you might be focusing on right now and instead, just concentrate on being the wonderful, genuine, carefree, beautiful person you’ve always been.  More than anything, this will go a long way to returning your lover into your arms.

2. What if your ex has a new love interest?

You should present a positive contrast.  That is always be yourself, your “best self.”  The best way you can do that is by not competing with your lover’s new partner.  That will only make the situation worse.

When you are with your beloved, be positive and focus on having a good time and sharing positive experiences.  If you are consistently having good experiences, your ex will enjoy a certain feeling of comfort and joy around you.

No matter how it appears on the outside, your ex’s new love interest has flaws too.  It’s not always rosy between them.  If you consistently provide a fun experience and make it comfortable for your ex to be around you, then you can create a positive contrast from what your ex may be experiencing with this other person.  Obviously this makes it much easier for him / her to desire to get back together with you.

3. Don’t do anything which puts your ex on the defensive.

This is truly counterproductive to any efforts of getting back together.  Be careful what questions you ask, especially personal ones.  At a minimum, this leads to your ex feeling uncomfortable and at most it can lead to an argument or an unpleasant experience.  And your ex will not likely want to be with you if they associate you with negative experiences.

If you want to have a complete step-by-step strategy on how to implement the above ideas, and many other effective ways to win back you lover, check this top rated guide “Win Back Love“.

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Don’t Make Your Ex Jealous

September 26, 2008 | Leave a Comment

Many relationship gurus support the idea of making your ex jealous as a way of returning her/him back to you. They think your ex will realize how much they like you and will come crawling back. Don’t buy this idea. This technique will more harm than good. It may work initially, but soon enough you’ll be right back where you started.

Why jealousy doesn’t work: When your ex sees you with a new “love interest,” they might conclude any of the following…

  1. You are no longer available. Any lingering doubts they have had are now replaced with a clear sign they should move on, and perhaps find a new love themselves.
  2. You are clearly trying to make them jealous, or you are using this new person as a rebound. In either case, you run the risk of looking immature, which is obviously not an attractor.  If your ex sees through your plan, you efforts to get back together are dead.
  3. Initially, either consciously or sub-consciously, your ex may wonder how they stack up against your new love interest. They may even wonder if they are good enough for you. And for the sake of satisfying their ego, they may get back together with you.

 

This is what some of the so-called experts have tried to sell. In most cases you will not get back together and for those rare cases that do get back together, their chances for staying together are slim.

For immediate access to the entire “Biggest Breakup Mistakes” Series as well as a complete step-by-step system to win back the love of your life, secure your copy of “Win Back Love” at: http://savemarriagesite.com/go/winbacklove.html.

P.S: If you want to try “Making Your Ex Jealous” technique, make sure you get the strategy as laid out in this guide: http://savemarriagesite.com/go/makingupmagic.html

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The Tricks to Make Your Ex Return Your Call

September 20, 2008 | Leave a Comment

What if I said that I have ‘magic’ words that you can use to get your ex to return your phone calls? Yes! It’s hard to believe. Not many people know that there are words that will nearly cast a spell and make your ex feel almost compelled to return your call. Now I am going to share one of the “tricks” with you. Hopefully, I will see a drop in the statistic for broken marriages or broken relationships (if there’s such statistic). In the following paragraph, I’ll give you the technique to get your ex to return your phone call, text or IM.

You can get the complete strategy to get your ex to return your call at:

http://savemarriagesite.com/go/makingupmagic.html

Before I revealed the technique, I want to caution you this technique may not work if it is use alone. You need an ‘overall’ plan or strategy. Without this strategy, you may damage your relationship more than if she/he never returned your call.

Before we get into the actual words, let’s look at what not to say. The words that almost certain will not work. And worse still, it will put you in an awful ‘psychological’ position. They usually fall into 2 categories.

The Pleading; the message sounds like this, “John, please, please calls me. This is the 3rd time I have called. I have to talk to you.”

The Emergency; “Jane, this is an emergency. Please call me as soon as you get this.”

Now, I think you can see what is wrong with both of the approaches above. So, there’s no necessity for me to go further.

I think you are aware that curiosity and self-interest are the two most powerful forces in a human mind.  How can you use those forces to your advantage? If you combine the two, you have a recipe that will work ‘magic’. That’s the secret. So let’s us look at what you can say and make it works nearly every time.

In a friendly tone:

“Hi John. It’s Jane. I wanted to let you know I appreciate what you did for me. Call me because I want to thank you in person.”

Do you see how both curiosity and self interest are used?

John will not be able to resist! “What did I do?”

“What does she appreciate?” he will be thinking. And he feels good because it is a positive message.

Before you call, you need to do the “Set Up” which is figuring out what he/she did that you appreciate. It can be any small thing, but needs to be plausible. But most importantly, please have an underlying strategy like what Mr. Jackson lay out in the Magic of Making Up before you make that call.

http://savemarriagesite.com/go/makingupmagic.html

If you apply this technique with no underlying strategy and she/he call you back, you can do more damage than good if you do not handle it correctly. What I am saying is what you do before, during and after you get them to return your call is more important than getting them to return your call. Make sense?

So, plan what you going to do before, during and after your ex return your call.

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